Wedding night sex may be the most overhyped part of getting married. There is so much pressure to have amazing sex after you say "I do"—but we're not quite sure why. For many couples, sex is already a big part of their relationship, and let's face it—wedding sex can rum the gamut, from sweet and romantic to super overrated or even a disaster. Take it from these 10 real brides who dished on how their wedding night sex or lack thereof went down. My Jewish friends and relatives refer to this as 'making soup. Since we got married outside, I remember seeing little spiders crawling through the lace of my wedding dress as I was bent over the couch, laughing the whole time.
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Remember Me. The first time I saw his penis I was shocked — his erection was bigger than I had expected it to be The wedding was over, but the memory of music, candlelight and conversation lingered as I sat on the petal-strewn bed of our hotel room. I was a virgin at the time; we both were. We had decided to wait until we were married before we had sex. Being year-olds in love and madly attracted to each other, this was no easy feat. We had our reasons for waiting, but as the wedding date neared it became harder for us to hold back.
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First nights can be a real nightmare for many. It is after all the first time you will be in bed with your husband. The man you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with. The pressure can be crushing. That is the story of a lot of Indian Women. But while everyone around you might not be of a lot of help, we have your back. Listen from the women who have been in the headspace where you are or will be right now. But things turned out really great for them.
Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Brides pick out expensive lingerie , hotels offer luxurious wedding suites, and friends tease the newlyweds about consummating the marriage. And yet, while weddings can be an incredible events, they are often so exhausting that by the time the newlyweds leave the reception, they may be too tired to have sex — or too tired to have good sex, anyway. Wedding guests, on the other hand, are another story. In one illuminating Reddit thread , married people who did have sex on their wedding night shared what it was really like.